Unplugging Power Struggles: Resolving Emotional Battles with Your Kids Ages 2 to 10

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Parenting Press, Inc., 2000 - 127 pages
Children need to feel in control of their own lives. Too often, though, kids don't have the developmental skills or the maturity to handle the power they want. Or you as a parent aren't confortable with the control your kids want. The result: power struggles. If this sounds familiar, you'll find the help you need in Jan Faull's sensible, easy-to-read book. This experienced parent educator explains that yes, you often can avoid--or at least endure--the tug-of-war over power. But, she points out, there are some power struggles that are almost inevitable. Some of these you have to be prepared to lose occasionally. If you're struggling to accept your children's need for control, Faull's advice will give you the road map you need. She explains how you can continue to provide the guidance your children require and still allow them to develop competency and self-esteem.
 

Table des matières

Introduction
6
The Dreaded Power Struggle
7
Why Children Need Power and Control
15
Choices and Decisions Suitable for Children
25
Sometimes You Just Have to Hold On
34
Choices Negotiation and Compromise
46
Letting Go of a Power Struggle
63
Choosing Any One of the Three Options
73
Power Struggles You Will Always Lose
82
What You Bring to Power Struggles
94
Tapping into Your True Power
103
Rebuilding Damaged Relationships
114
Afterword
122
Helpful Resources
123
Index
125
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À propos de l'auteur (2000)

Jan Faull, MEd, is a popular Seattle area parenting educator. A mother of three, she lives in Renton, Washington.

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