Singled Out: How Singles Are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After

Couverture
Macmillan, 30 oct. 2007 - 336 pages

"Singled Out debunks myths and stereotypes about single people and lays the groundwork for social, political, and economic change."
-- Thomas F. Coleman, Executive Director, Unmarried America

Drawing from decades of scientific research and stacks of stories from the front lines of singlehood, Bella DePaulo debunks the myths of singledom---and shows that just about everything you've heard about the benefits of getting married and the perils of staying single are grossly exaggerated or just plain wrong. Although singles are singled out for unfair treatment by the workplace, the marketplace, and the federal tax structure, they are not simply victims of this singlism--single people really are living happily ever after.

Singled Out Debunks Ten Myths of Singlehood, Including:
-Myth--The Dark Aura of Singlehood: You are miserable and lonely and your life is tragic.
-Myth--Attention, Single Women: Your work won't love you back and your eggs will dry up. Also, you don't get any and you're promiscuous.
-Myth--Attention, Single Men: You are horny, slovenly, and irresponsible, and you are the scary criminals. Or you are sexy, fastidious, frivolous, and gay.

"Elegant analysis, wonderfully detailed examples, and clear and witty prose...A must-read for all single adults, their friends and families, as well as social scientists and policy advocates."
--E. Kay Trimberger, author of The New Single Woman

"The singles movement is coming to a bookstore near you."
--Associated Press

"Fascinating . .this book could hardly have come at a better time. As much as societal adulation of the couple discriminates against single people, Singled Out suggests that it can also undermine marriage."
--The Christian Science Monitor

 

Table des matières

Science and the Single Person
28
EIGHT
31
The Wonder of Couples 62
62
FOUR
71
The Dark Aura of Singlehood
94
SEVEN
134
Attention Single Men
150
NINE
167
TWELVE
210
THIRTEEN
234
FOURTEEN
243
FIFTEEN
252
Notes
263
Bibliography
291
Acknowledgments
309
Index
315

ΤΕΝ
185
ELEVEN
199

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Fréquemment cités

Page 304 - Unmarried to Each Other: The Essential Guide to Living Together as an Unmarried Couple (2002) and Let Them Eat Wedding Rings: The Role of Marriage Promotion in Welfare Reform (2002).
Page 292 - The effects of marital status and wives' employment on the salaries of faculty men: The (house) wife bonus. Gender and Society, 6(4), 609—622.

À propos de l'auteur (2007)

Bella DePaulo, Ph.D., is a social psychologist who did her graduate work at Harvard. She is the author of Singled Out and a visiting professor at the University of California at Santa Barbara. She lives in Summerland, California.

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